凡事从自己身上找原因，是一个人最高级的修养！
<section data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><span style="font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 1px;">人生在世，只要与人接触，难免都会出现一些磕磕碰碰。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当遇到这些事情的时候，我们是无处宣泄地怨天尤人，还是常思己过反躬自省呢？</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《礼记·乐记》有云：</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“好恶无节于内，知诱于外，不能反躬，天理灭矣。”</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">意思是遇事如果不能反躬自省，反而将自己的好恶全部表现出来，是不符合天理的。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">遇事不抱怨，先从自己身上找原因，是一个人最高级的修养。</span></strong></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></strong></span></section><section></section><section><br/></section><p><br/></p><p></p><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2" style=""><li><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 1.75em;margin-top: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人最大的愚蠢，是怨天尤人。</span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></section></li></ul><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></p><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">老子说：“大道之行，不责于人。”</span></p><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></p><p><br/></p><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">真正优秀的人，都懂得遇事不责备于人。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而有些人在遇到事情之后，经常无意识地抱怨，连自己都无法察觉。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">抱怨之人心中会有怨气，怨气横生，周遭的气场肯定不好。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不好的气场时时刻刻影响着自己，让自己逐渐丧失斗志和信念，从而使人越来越不顺。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，千万不要抱怨，抱怨会带来灾难。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">古时候有一个人，他有个习惯，吃早饭时不放盐。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有天早上，妻子往粥里放了点盐，他知道后，气不打一处来，对妻子吼道：</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“你不知道我吃早饭不放盐吗？不吃了。”</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">妻子感到委屈，和他争辩起来。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">争吵之间，一边的孩子被吓哭了，</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子不小心把汤汁滴到了他的干净衣服上。</span></section><section><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">想到一会要去拜访朋友，没有一件干净的衣服，他心中更加烦躁了。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一边抱怨，一边拿湿布子擦拭污点。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">怒气冲冲出门之后，却又发现自己给好友带的礼物没有拿，此时赶回家却又发现来不及。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最终空手去到朋友家中。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">与好友相谈，好友觉得他满身怨气，心中不悦，最终两人不欢而散。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">丈夫心里又开始抱怨：</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“真是糟糕的一天，怎么所有的坏事都集中到了我这里呢？”</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">身为旁观者的我们都明白，这一切的不顺，都是由于他早上抱怨一碗饭开始的。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">遇到不顺心的事情，抱怨是人们发泄不满情绪的一种方式。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而越是抱怨，身边的负能量气场就越多。不好的气场越多，就更容易抱怨。如此循环往复，会让人无法自拔。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活不易，偶尔发发牢骚，适当倾诉也是人之常情。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但若是陷入无休止的抱怨，满腹牢骚不能冷静，这不仅是一种悲哀，更是一种愚蠢。</span></strong></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></strong></span></section><section></section><section><br/></section><section></section><p><br/></p><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2" style=""><li><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 1.75em;margin-top: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">遇事不责备，是一个人的顶级修养。</span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></section></li></ul><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></p><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">古语云：以责人之心责己，以恕己之心恕人。</span></p><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></p><p><br/></p><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人在遇到事情时，如果只懂得责备他人，不想着从自己身上找原因，只能让事情更加地恶化。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个人唯有懂得自省，才能看清自己的错误与不足，人生之路才能越走越宽。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">遇事不指责，不仅会让事情更好处理，而且更能体现出一个人的修养。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">之前看过一个新闻。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在贵州省某个小区的高层住户家中突然起火，火势蔓延迅速，很快就把整个家烧得一片狼藉。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">好在家中主人发现得早，及时逃离现场，并没有生命危险。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">事后，户主孟女士说：</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“早上拿吹风机给孩子吹床单和裤子，吹到一半时，孩子哭闹不止，她去给孩子换裤子，忘了关吹风机。”</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">没想到吹风机突然爆炸，引燃了床头的枕头，造成了这场大火。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">丈夫回家之后，发现家中被烧得一片狼藉，又看了看伤心自责的妻子说：</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“不就是一套房子吗？</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们重新装修，可以住新房子啦。”</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">丈夫的一句话，让妻子再也忍不住，转身抱住了丈夫。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而就是这么一句安慰的话，对妻子来说是多么的弥足珍贵。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但是如果丈夫来一句：</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“你为什么不关掉吹风机再去找孩子呢？</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">连这么简单的事都做不了，真是娶你有什么用？”</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那么这家人失去的就不仅仅是房子了，更是家人之间的感情。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">小事见人心，大事见感情。</span></strong></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></strong></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对于丈夫的安慰，大多数网友纷纷表示，羡慕孟女士嫁对了人。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">事情已经发生，即便再责备也无济于事，只能是徒增伤痛。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">古语云：唯宽可以容人，唯厚可以载物。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">做人，宽容大度是一种修养，更是一种美德，原谅别人的错，解脱自己的心。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">谁都有犯错的时候，交往都有误解的时候。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">懂得换位思考，将心比心，是一个人最基本的善良。</span></strong></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></strong></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">停止对身边人和事的指责，修一颗宽容之心，养一张宽容之嘴，你的生活越来越顺利。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section></section><section></section><p><br/></p><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2" style=""><li><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 1.75em;margin-top: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">自省，方能成就一切。</span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></section></li></ul><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></p><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《孟子》云：“行有不得，反求诸己。”</span></p><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></p><p><br/></p><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">遇到不顺的事情时，懂得反躬自省，从自身出发找问题，往往都能取得不错的效果。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而时时刻刻懂得自省的人，在事业成就上也都不会差。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在一个军队里，新来了一批士兵。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">按规定，军队里会给每一个士兵都配发新的军装和帽子。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">新配发的军装在配发之前没有量每个人的身高体重，所以这些衣服经常和每个人的身材不符，大家都只能挑选最接近自己身材的服装来穿。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有一个士兵在选军装时刚好不在，所以大家给他留了一身比自己大好多的衣服。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一天，一个军官来查岗，看到这个士兵的衣服特别大，帽子也大得快把自己的眼睛给遮住了。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">于是军官问：“你的衣服和帽子怎么这么大呢？”</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他回答道：“报告长官，不是我的衣服和帽子大，是我的身体和头太小了。”</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“你的身体和头太小不就是衣服和帽子太大吗？” 军官问。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><p><br/></p><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">士兵回答道：</span></p><p><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></p><p><br/></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“我母亲教导我，身为一个顶天立地的男人，遇到任何事，首先都应该找的是自己的问题，而不是找其他问题。”</span></strong></span></section></blockquote></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">长官对他的回答表示认同。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人生在世，会遇到许许多多的问题。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">凡事都找别人的毛病和问题，不仅不会很好地解决问题，反而让自己陷入无休止的抱怨中。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">真正优秀的人，都懂得从自己身上找原因。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这不仅是一种修养，更是一种智慧。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每个人身上都有很多缺点，不要一味地指责，多用宽厚之心对待身边的人和事，将心比心，这是一个人最大的善良。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活中，少一些抱怨与指责，多一些自我反省。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人人都有缺点和不足，量人先量己，责人先问己。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">无论干什么，知道自己不足才能避免犯错，看清自己缺点才能扬长避短。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">抱怨不仅会给一个人带来烦恼和压力，还会消磨一个人的意志。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">古语云，静坐常思己过，闲谈莫论人非。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">遇到事情，不要找别的借口，冷静下来反思自身。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">站在别人的角度看问题，站在别人的角度看待自己，才能更正确地认识自己。</span></strong></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></strong></span></section><section style="text-align: center;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">▽</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">知人者智，自知者明。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人生的成与败都是自己决定的，反思自身，才能让自己越来越优秀。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">从现在开始，用一颗自省的心来对待世间纷扰，你的人生会越来越美好。</span></section><section><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section><span style="font-size: 17px;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">与朋友们共勉。</span><strong style=""></strong></span></section><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="http://www.320924.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_riy" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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