人生最难的修行：遇事不怒，对错不辩，输赢不争
<h1 style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><p style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45); font-family: PingFangTC-light; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">看过一句话：“遇事不怒，对错不辩，输赢不争，才是为人处世的大智慧。”</span><br/></p></h1><p></p><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">仔细想想，确实如此。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">人所有的烦恼，皆来自于内心的不安宁。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">有修为的人,沉得住气，看得透是非，放得下得失，活得通透洒脱，从容自在。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style=""><section data-width="100%" style=""><section style=""><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style=""><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style=""><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style=""><section data-author="Wxeditor"><article data-author="Wxeditor" style=""><section data-wxsrc="http://www.320924.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style=""><section style=""><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-indent: 32px;letter-spacing: 0.47px;font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 16px;text-decoration: underline;background-color: rgb(63, 63, 63);caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"> 01 </span></strong></span></strong></section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">不怒，是一种修为</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">“怒”字拆开就是“奴心”，人愤怒时，心就被奴役了。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">看过一个《发怒的毛驴》的故事。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">有一头毛驴，本来在磨坊里任劳任怨地拉磨，突然一条流浪狗跑过来摇着尾巴冷嘲热讽道：</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">“哎呦，你这头傻驴真可怜，只配在院子里拉磨,你活一辈子还不如我活一天快活！”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">毛驴听后顿时怒火冲天，飞快地冲上去。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">可是狗跑得太快没追上，它越想越生气，完全没有心思干活了。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">这时主人八岁的儿子跑过来要骑驴，毛驴正好没地方发泄，一脚将孩子踢出去，孩子摔得头破血流。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">主人非常恼火，直接把驴卖到了屠宰场。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">驴子的悲剧，其实现实生活中我们都或多或少经历过。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span><br/></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">生活中，总会遇到一些对你说三道四的人。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">因此丧失理智，大动干戈，只会让情绪失控，酿成无法挽回的僵局，到头来吃亏的还是自己。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">正所谓：一忍可以制百辱，一静可以制百怒。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">怒而不言，气话不入耳，放过别人，也是放过自己。</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">作家歌德的诗歌在当时广为传颂，但也有些人怀有成见。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">有一次在一条狭窄的小路上，歌德遇到了一个批评家。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">批评家素来看不惯歌德的作品，他高傲地说：“我从来不给蠢货让路。”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">歌德没有生气，反而退让到路边微笑着说：“我恰好相反。”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">面对不愉快的事，一笑而过是最有力的还击。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong><span style="font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">做人要像河流一样，遇到障碍就绕开，绕不过去就蓄积力量，漫过去。</span></strong></span><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">苏东坡说过一句话：</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">“卒然临之而不惊，无故加之而不怒。此其所挟持者甚大，而其志甚远也。”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">做人，赢在和气，败在脾气，贵在大气。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">能压得住脾气，才能掌控好自己的人生。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style=""><section data-width="100%" style=""><section style=""><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style=""><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style=""><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style=""><section data-author="Wxeditor"><article data-author="Wxeditor" style=""><section data-wxsrc="http://www.320924.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style=""><section style=""><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: 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255);">不辩，是一种格局</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">网上看过一个提问：“跟人争辩是一种什么样的体验？”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">评论区有个答案，说出了大部分人的真实想法：</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">当时争得面红耳赤语无伦次，只想压倒对方，回头复盘的时候才想到精妙的反驳，然后越想越生气。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">你也有过类似的体验吧：</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">和别人争论之后，事后觉得自己没发挥好，更是懊悔不已。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">一次争吵，两次伤害，徒做一些无谓的消耗。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">企业家马斯克曾说：</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><blockquote style=""><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">“我现在不和人争吵了，因为每个人只能在他的认知水准上去思考。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">以后有人说二加二等于十，我会说你真厉害，你完全正确！”</span></section></blockquote></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">宁和明白人打一架，不和糊涂人说句话。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">不轻易争辩，是处事的智慧，更是做人的格局。</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span><br/></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">北宋名相富弼，长于辩论。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">有一次，一个穷秀才当街拦住他，说：“听闻你能言善辩，我来问你一个问题。”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">富弼温声答道：“可以，您请说。”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">“若有人公然辱骂你，你该如何应对？”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">“我会装作没有听见。”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">那人嘲笑富弼是个缩头乌龟，浪得虚名，转身离去了。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">一旁的仆人急了。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">富弼说：“此人带着怒气而来。我若与他争论，必定吵得面红耳赤。即便吵赢了他，也是口服心不服，徒劳无益。”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">庄子曰：大辩不辩。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">如果你错了，多说无益；如果你没错，事实自然水落石出。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">瓷器永远不要去和砖头对抗，认知低的人不必试图纠正。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">这样，大家互不干扰，在各自的世界里相安甚好。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">静水流深，智者寡言。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">学会沉默和隐忍，明事理多思考，潜心修炼自己，这才是做人的大格局。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style=""><section data-width="100%" style=""><section style=""><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style=""><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style=""><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style=""><section data-author="Wxeditor"><article data-author="Wxeditor" style=""><section data-wxsrc="http://www.320924.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style=""><section style=""><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-indent: 32px;letter-spacing: 0.47px;font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 16px;text-decoration: underline;background-color: rgb(63, 63, 63);caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"> 03 </span></strong></span></strong></section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">不争，是一种智慧</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">《道德经》中讲：天之道，利而不害；圣人之道，为而不争。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">争，不过是不甘心，为了争一口气。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">然而强求太多，实则是跟自己过不去。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span><br/></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">看过一个小故事。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">有个渔夫，为一家渔队捕鱼，每天乐乐呵呵出门，即使空网也哼着歌归来，日子活得简单快乐。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">有一天，他意外捕捞到一块金子，欣喜若狂，那晚他没有唱歌，幻想着未来。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">第二天，他卖了那块金子又借了一笔高利贷，买了一艘渔船，雇了几个渔夫，做起了捕鱼的生意。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">几年下来，生意越做越大。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">可他却再也笑不出来了，每天不是担忧天气好坏，就是要跟其他渔队竞争鱼价，内心没有片刻安宁。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">一次龙卷风让船触礁，损失惨重，渔夫心情跌落到极点，沮丧地走在海滩上。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">这时，他看到一个流浪汉躺在沙滩上，晒着太阳哼着歌。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">渔夫不解地问：“你一无所有，怎么会这么快乐？”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">流浪汉说：“我有阳光，有健康，有自由，为什么要不快乐？”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">渔夫恍然大悟，他想起以前自己也是个知足常乐的人，只是因为一味地去争取，失去了快乐的本能。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">国学大师南怀瑾说：</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">生命中只有被欲望迷乱了的人，才一定要分出尊卑高下。不争，是人生至境。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong><span style="font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">不争，不是不追求而是不强求，知道该做什么，什么是最适合的。</span></strong></span><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">爱而不能求而不得，本就是人生常态。该来的终究会来，不该来的强求也没用。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">凡事尽力就好，不要过于强求结果。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">《菜根谭》说道：“夫唯不争，天下莫能与之争。”</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">人生最曼妙的风景，不过是静而不争，知足常乐，得之坦然失之泰然，内心淡泊自在随缘。</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;line-height: 25.6px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(95, 95, 95);line-height: 28px;font-size: 14px;white-space: pre-wrap;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-ratio="1" data-type="gif" data-w="19" width="auto" src="http://www.320924.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/roTNcRZ7FNqQujPTPOYQKUD1ULq3lt0iamiccKn7FfDxqn7Cr3ygOuxcRibanT5ibea6B05icTTJdGM2RUa9lP70f5A/640?wx_fmt=gif" style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 25.6px;font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;height: 19px 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1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">平心静气，方能成就大气；沉默不言，就是最好的辩解；保持一颗平常心，人生就会少很多烦恼。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">人活一世，是一个不断与自己、与世界和解的过程。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 45);font-family: PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">过得好不好，心态最重要。</span></section><p></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="http://www.320924.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_NCi" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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