凌乱的家庭，养不出自律的孩子
<p></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><h1 style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><h1 style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">俞敏洪说：</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="34" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“如果把家庭比作一台复印机，把父母比作原件的话，那孩子就是复印件。”</strong></span></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 25px 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母的言行，会在潜移默化中影响孩子。如果孩子专注力差、不自律，父母就该反思自己是不是做得不足。</span><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">毕竟，父母是孩子的第一任老师。家庭，是孩子接触的第一个世界。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家庭环境的熏陶对孩子至关重要。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">干净整洁的家庭，能给孩子带来积极的能量；凌乱不堪的家庭，则无法给孩子带来正面的影响。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家庭生活，不仅浸染着孩子的精神面貌和生活态度，也潜藏着孩子的未来。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;text-decoration: underline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> 01 </span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 25px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">凌乱的房间，侵蚀孩子的专注力</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">昨天，去邻居一位妈妈家做客。一进门，就看到她和孩子在争吵。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">原来，孩子的数学书不见了。妈妈忍不住怒气冲冲：</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="22" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“你怎么这么笨，连自己的几本书都看管不好。”</strong></span></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 25px 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子低着头，很委屈。妈妈继续唠叨，说孩子的专注力太差，练习题虽然摊开着，思维却不知道跑到了哪里。一会吃零食一会喝水。<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子忍不住顶嘴道：</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="33" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“我昨天看到书在桌子上，肯定是你拿走了，你总是把家里弄得乱糟糟。”</strong></span></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 25px 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">听到孩子的话，我不禁看了眼客厅。地板上扔着吃剩的零食袋、茶几上倒着饮料瓶、沙发上的脏衣服堆成了小山、玄关处的鞋子东一只西一只。</span><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">凌乱的环境，严重损害了孩子的专注力。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那些四散的玩具、书籍很容易分散孩子的注意力，让孩子养成一会看看这个，一会玩玩那个的习惯，不利于他们集中精力做一件事。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《荀子》说：</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“居必择乡，游必就士。”</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">意思是说，<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">居住要选择风俗美好的地方，出游要结交贤德的人。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可见，环境对人有很大的影响。整洁的家庭环境让孩子感到轻松，而杂乱的家庭环境则容易让孩子烦躁。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">脏乱且没有秩序感的环境还会让人心情烦闷、头脑混乱，遇事无法沉心静气。脾气也变得暴躁，矛盾也会增多。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而干净整齐的房间，不仅给孩子营造了一个安静的氛围。也让他们体会到了精神上的舒适和安宁，这个时候他们的大脑更清晰、条理更清楚。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子只有心情平和、思绪平静时，才能做到专心致志。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">凌乱的家庭养不出专注的孩子。为人父母要以身作则，把家里收拾干净，孩子才会感觉到舒适安定，才能方便注意力的集中和培养。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></p></h1><h1 style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;text-decoration: underline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> 02 </span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 25px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">凌乱的房间</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">，</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">破</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">坏孩子的自律能力</span></span></strong></section></h1><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">心理学家塞德兹说：</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="23" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“人就像陶瓷一样，小时候就会形成一生的模型。”</strong></span></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 25px 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">自律的孩子得益于父母的培养，它需要父母端正和完善自己的生活，给孩子树立榜样。</span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">同事10岁的孩子，喜欢睡懒觉，上课总是迟到。学习不积极，玩起游戏却不亦乐乎。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有意思的是，同事的工作状态也不尽如人意。办公桌上乱七八糟，工作时间玩手机。而且上班总迟到，早该完成的工作进度一拖再拖，最后只能潦草收尾。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他常常一边责怪孩子，邋遢、懒惰、不爱学习。一边抱怨家里凌乱，到处都丢着脏衣服、吃剩的泡面甚至都发了霉。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家庭环境一团糟，孩子怎么能不受影响。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母吃完东西，包装袋随手一扔，躺在沙发上刷手机。孩子自然也有样学样，电视的声音整耳欲聋，书本却四散在各地。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">久而久之，孩子的学习态度就越来越敷衍，精神状态也越来越散漫颓废。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">贪图舒适是人的本性，孩子也不例外。毕竟，学习不如游戏轻松自在。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">何况，若习惯了游戏和电视剧带来的低层次快乐后，自律的生活习惯就会变得难上加难。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的行为是父母的映射。没有规划、颓废、散漫的父母，养不出自律的孩子。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当父母贪图享乐、不再自我成长时，很难带给孩子积极正面的影响，孩子也缺乏努力向上的动力。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">华伦·巴菲特说：</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="36" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“在小事上都没办法管理自己的人，遇到大事情的时候，很可能也管不住自己。”</span></strong></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 25px 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">自律的好习惯不是天生的，它需要父母给予正面的教育和引导，让孩子学会自我约束和自我管理。</span></strong></span><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">唯有父母以身作则，约束自己的行为，管理好自己的生活，才能培养孩子的自律。孩子才会在耳濡目染中变得积极、正向。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><h1 style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;text-decoration: underline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> 03 </span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 25px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">整洁的房间</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">，</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">养出的孩子更优</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">秀</span></span></strong></section></h1><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">哈佛商学院曾在研究中发现：</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="50" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">事业有成、家庭美满的人，往往把房间收拾得干净整洁；而事业、家庭皆不顺的人，通常会把家里弄得凌乱肮脏。</strong></span></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 25px 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实，干净的外表和有序洁净的生活环境，折射出的是人的生活态度。</span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">表弟小陈的家庭教育一直以来是我们的榜样，我们曾问过他有什么教育秘方。他说无非就是在生活上对孩子“无微不至”。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">直到有次，小陈生日。我们去过他家后就懂了，原来最好的教育就是<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">言传身教。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">小陈的家里窗明几净，地板纤尘不染，摆设坦然有序，连空气中都是清新的味道，让人感到安全与惬意。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他的女儿正端坐在书桌前写作业，书架上的书摆得整整齐齐。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">小陈说，他们平时很注意房间的整洁，也从小要求女儿养成起床后要把被子叠好、用过的东西要物归原处、书籍要摆放整齐等好的生活习惯。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们夫妻也很少看电视、玩游戏，大多时候都会看书和学习。在小陈夫妻耳濡目染的教导下，女儿很优秀，乖巧懂事，成绩也常年保持着年级前三。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所谓“无微不至”的教育，就是父母对孩子的躬身示范。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有出息的孩子，从来不是天生的。它离不开家庭的熏陶，离不开父母的培养。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母戒掉无效的玩乐，拿起书本，孩子自然也乐意从学习中找乐趣。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母积极勤劳，让家里井然有序，孩子的生活和学习自然也井井有条。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为，营造一种舒适的生活环境，不仅心情会愉悦，更是一种积极主动的人生观。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果父母只是口头上教育孩子要努力，行为上却背道而驰。孩子就会感到一种拉扯感，也会失去了对好坏的正确判断。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当父母言行一致，懂得以身作则时，孩子才能感受到“努力”不只是一句口号，而是一种实实在在的指引，它能让人变得更加优秀。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">好的教育，就是父母给孩子做榜样，给予孩子精神上的滋养，言行上的影响。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">营造干净整洁的家，舒适的氛围，这种整齐有序的环境会给予孩子正向的能量支撑。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子只有学会了要求自己，明白了自我管理的重要性，才能保持对学习和生活的热情。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;widows: 1;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 27.2px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: rgb(99, 36, 35);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(99, 36, 35);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span></p><h1 style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;text-decoration: underline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> 04 </span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 25px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">自律的父母，才能培养出优秀的孩子</span></strong></section></h1><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的教育，依靠父母的人生功底。父母自律，才能带动和影响孩子。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">首先，父母要学会断舍离，比如清减家里的物品，丢掉那些没有意义的东西。可以全家一起给家里来次大扫除，增进感情的同时，也体会到了劳动的快乐。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">整理过程中，看看有没有下列物品，有的话记得及时清理。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">比如：</span></p><ol class=" list-paddingleft-2" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">旧的柜子、缺了角的桌子。</span></p></li><li><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">过期的食品，冰箱冷冻室里放置太久的食物。</span></p></li><li><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">旧手机、旧电池、旧电脑、时间久远到泛黄的小票。</span></p></li><li><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">破了洞的袜子、旧得发黄的衣服、穿不下的衣服。</span></p></li><li><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子小时候的学步车、小玩具、旧书包。</span></p></li></ol><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那些阻碍前行的，不会再用到的，统统都清除掉。从家里每个角落开始，做到轻松自如，让家的氛围更美好。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其次，父母以身作则，才能帮助孩子养成自律的好习惯。</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那么，父母究竟该怎样做呢？可以从以下3点着手：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1.放下手机，培养孩子的积极主动</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">休息时，不要慵懒地窝在沙发上。可以做做家务，把地板拖干净，东西摆放整齐。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家居环境整洁，才不会干扰到孩子。还能给人来视觉上的享受，心灵上的喜悦。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子也会因此养成爱干净、爱收拾的好品质。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">还要控制玩手机的时间，带领孩子一起学习，一起上进。在这个过程中，家庭中的每个人都会收获到更好的自己。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2.好好说话，培养孩子的礼貌修养</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子做得不够好时，不要大声呵斥。失控大吼，只是在发泄你的不满情绪。这样不仅让孩子产生逆反心理，还会给孩子带来伤害。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">言辞温和，循循善诱，才能让孩子信任你，才能虚心接受你的批评建议并加以改正。孩子也能温和有礼地对待这个世界。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3.懂得规划，培养孩子的自律。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">做事情有条理，家里的物品分类。这样不仅能让房间看起来整洁，还可以节省掉很多不必要的时间。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">比如：每当要翻找东西时，总是因为东西太多、太乱而找不到。着急忙慌一顿乱翻，不仅弄得家里更乱，也打乱了我们做事的节奏。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">倘若你养成好的习惯，孩子就会看在眼里。他会心领神会地安排好自己的学习和娱乐，整理好自己书籍和玩具。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有目标不忙，有原则不乱。劳逸结合，更利于孩子身心健康。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></p><h1 style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-bottom: 25px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;text-decoration: underline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> 05 </span></strong></span></section></h1><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">李玫瑾教授说：</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="40" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“12岁是孩子性格养成的关键时期，孩子有没有成材，就要看这个阶段有没有教到位。”</strong></span></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 25px 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子还小，没有形成正确的是非观。父母是孩子的第一责任人，应该给予正确的教育。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">从打扫家庭开始，提升孩子的幸福感和安全感。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">给予孩子一个温馨、整洁的家庭环境，让孩子感受到积极、温和。孩子心情好了，学习自然更投入。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">古人说，<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孟母三迁，近朱者赤。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">良好的环境，整理好房间，是你用心和爱的体现，孩子感受得到。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你对孩子的耐心和细心，还会形成孩子的性格底色。让他们做事更专注，做人更优秀。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(69, 69, 69);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">毕竟，再好的名校，都比不上父母的言传身教。每一个脱颖而出的孩子，都离不开父母的奋力托举。</span></p></section></h1></section><p></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="http://www.320924.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_jzx" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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